tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post5203888361557617286..comments2023-11-02T01:59:24.761-07:00Comments on Cuntensquirten: I am being quietR. Mildredhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00932355251730998294noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-34423641574123008852010-11-03T22:51:40.739-07:002010-11-03T22:51:40.739-07:00It is my first message here, so I would like to sa...It is my first message here, so I would like to say hallo to all of you! It is definitely comfort to be adjacent to your community!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-42545989256285858132008-04-21T15:08:00.000-07:002008-04-21T15:08:00.000-07:00"Joan: NPD is short for "Narccissistic Personality..."Joan: NPD is short for "Narccissistic Personality Disorder", <BR/><BR/>Ah, thanks for explaining. I have a question if you ever come back to this thread. (I understand if it has become too inflamed for you to feel like talking about any of it anymore though.) <BR/><BR/>Do you think it's possible for people to ever have private email groups that are about them having an idea of safety around Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-5065785413207133372008-04-19T09:36:00.000-07:002008-04-19T09:36:00.000-07:00Rolls eyes. RM, not everyone has to do or view ev...Rolls eyes. RM, not everyone has to do or view everything your way, and the real idoicy here is that you think everyone must. I do read, thanks, and you know, I like the WoC bloggers I like because I think they say some amazing and valid shit. Wooo...stone me to death. And I don't much care about being your friend either, really, because you're tendency to be cloyingly arrogant and abusive Renegade Evolutionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17905949172886730262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-6341330457852887292008-04-19T08:09:00.000-07:002008-04-19T08:09:00.000-07:00Actually, you are not being quiet.Also, I think I'...Actually, you are not being quiet.<BR/><BR/>Also, I think I've had it up to my eyeballs with feminists who feel it is their place to tell other women how to respond to situations. Just because YOU feel your best response is to sit back and LISTEN, doesn't mean that other women must do as you see fit to make YOU feel better things. Talk about narcissism.<BR/><BR/>Ren can write whatever the hell Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-1902268510706937642008-04-19T06:39:00.000-07:002008-04-19T06:39:00.000-07:00If you worry about such shit, then don't do it you...<I>If you worry about such shit, then don't do it yourself.</I><BR/><BR/>So what you're saying is; I shouldn't be a white guy who accuses you of being a mean ol' WOC who's after white women's lucrative publishing deals?<BR/><BR/>I... You... Why do you keep flinging these incomprehensible personal attacks at me? Arguement by making your opponent's brain 'splode isn't a valid form of arguement Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-29406141917562050232008-04-19T06:35:00.000-07:002008-04-19T06:35:00.000-07:00"bullshit I have with octogalore because of all th..."bullshit I have with octogalore because of all the other stuff as well"<BR/><BR/>Excuse me? I think about you maybe once a year when you say something characteristically solipsistic under the guise of being a witty advisor to those who have stopped listening a long time ago. <BR/><BR/>So I strongly doubt that we "have" anything, bullshit or otherwise.<BR/><BR/>However, if you do have somethingOctogalorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14052288318330285365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-53343620609798990122008-04-19T01:19:00.000-07:002008-04-19T01:19:00.000-07:00actually, RM spell it out in small words, so I can...actually, RM spell it out in small words, so I can understand...I posted one thing on seal press and their conduct on BA's blog, and gee, sorry, and emotive thing on BfP...other than that, a few words of deserved admiration and support to WoC bloggers I admire....<BR/><BR/>How horrible of me. <BR/><BR/>Now sure, I realize it's been a few months since you've torn into me and more or less called Renegade Evolutionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17905949172886730262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-43007960604972200122008-04-19T01:04:00.000-07:002008-04-19T01:04:00.000-07:00"IF i know for a fact that what I'm gonna say is g..."IF i know for a fact that what I'm gonna say is going to be used as a weapon to assault women who don't need more shit thrown at them"<BR/><BR/>Classic, Rm, Classic. If you worry about such shit, then don't do it yourself.<BR/><BR/>that chick who can't read and all.Renegade Evolutionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17905949172886730262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-86965703513809035742008-04-18T17:33:00.000-07:002008-04-18T17:33:00.000-07:00...And the lesser of the evils just happens to inv......And the lesser of the evils just happens to involve the least amount of work or suffering on my part.<BR/><BR/>Because I AM one of those "friends" who's silence MLK talked about, and gosh darn don't I have my priorities all neatly sorted?R. Mildredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00932355251730998294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-84357897562792878752008-04-18T17:29:00.000-07:002008-04-18T17:29:00.000-07:00..And I did that thing where I forgot to make the .....And I did that thing where I forgot to make the point I was originally aiming for didn't I?<BR/><BR/><I>he problem is that I can't tell if any instance of my, ahem, "direct approach" actually seeming to work is actually a case of that approach being helpful, or whether it was merely a case of A) me being right on thost specific issues and B) the "target" caring enough about what's right and R. Mildredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00932355251730998294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-33187229398214172892008-04-18T17:17:00.000-07:002008-04-18T17:17:00.000-07:00Don't apologise Ilyka, the thing is that that defe...Don't apologise Ilyka, the thing is that that defensive reflex is probably a perfectly normal human thing, part of being a highly social member of <I>Pan narratis</I> really - I react the same way most times so bleh really - the problem is that I can't tell if any instance of my, ahem, "direct approach" actually seeming to work is actually a case of that approach being helpful, or whether it was R. Mildredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00932355251730998294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-78349160109016123332008-04-18T09:47:00.000-07:002008-04-18T09:47:00.000-07:00What is NPD? I hope that is not an offensive ques...What is NPD? I hope that is not an offensive question.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10796601.post-39060156526923585952008-04-16T04:16:00.000-07:002008-04-16T04:16:00.000-07:00think I've proven with both Marcotte and chasingmo...<EM>think I've proven with both Marcotte and chasingmoksha that I pretty effectively suck at the whole "teaching potential white allies that it doesn't cost you anything to not be a racist douchbag",</EM><BR/><BR/>Time was I'd have agreed with you on that, but I don't know anymore, R., I think you may be shortchanging yourself there. I've owed you the apology for ages now for saying once that Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com